In January 2024, singer Doja Cat's mother filed a temporary restraining order against her son. The accompanying documents painted a picture of mental and emotional abuse, leaving the singer feeling unsafe.

Domestic abuse can affect anyone. Money and fame don't automatically protect someone from a family member or loved one's violence.

If a loved one or partner is abusing you, filing for a restraining order is one of the best ways you can protect yourself from future abuse. The Lento Law Firm Family Law Team works with individuals throughout New Jersey to navigate the restraining order process. Call us at 888-535-3686 or contact us online.

A Distressing Pattern of Violence

In documents submitted to the court, Doja Cat's mother provided details about the extent of her son's abuse of Doja Cat.

The alleged violence included:

• Knocking out Doja's teeth
• Causing cuts and bruises on her body
• Verbal assault
• Theft and damage of personal belongings

As a result of these events, Doja reportedly felt unsafe and traumatized. Her mother also reported being physically abused by her son and that he had threatened her life.

This isn't the first time the son has had restraining orders against him. An earlier restraining order expired in 2017.

While the court granted the mother's request for a temporary restraining order, it denied Doja protection. The singer would need to file her own request for a restraining order.

These events happened in California, but a similar outcome would likely occur if they had occurred in New Jersey. It's also important to note that restraining orders cross state lines.

In the case of Doja's mother, if she traveled to New Jersey while the temporary restraining order was in place, she wouldn't need to file for a new restraining order in New Jersey. New Jersey would enforce the California order.

Restraining Orders in New Jersey

New Jersey limits restraining orders to loved ones and family members or situations in which domestic violence is likely to occur. The state has other protective orders for non-familial relations.

Similar to the Doja Cat case, each adult would have to file their own request for a restraining order in New Jersey. When submitting, individuals must include:

• The abuser's relationship to you
• Information about the abuse, preferably more detailed rather than less
• Any injuries sustained
• The time and place of the abuse
• Whether the abuse occurred once or is a pattern
• Any and all physical evidence
• Why a restraining order is necessary, such as concerns for your well-being and any threats the abuser has made

New Jersey grants both temporary and final restraining orders. Final restraining orders are open-ended and can only be dissolved by a judge's order. This differs from other states that often have a set expiration date, even with so-called final restraining orders.

Protect Yourself

No one should live in fear of harm, especially from a loved one. If you or a loved one is being abused by a family member, contact the Lento Law Firm Family Law Team. We can help you understand your options and safeguard your well-being. Call us at 888-535-3686 or contact us online.