False Allegations of Domestic Violence in New Jersey: What are the Legal Options?

Posted by Joseph D. Lento | Sep 01, 2022 | 0 Comments

Laws such as New Jersey's Domestic Violence Act are vital for protecting actual victims. But in some instances, like a contentious divorce or child custody case, one party may use these laws to make false allegations of domestic violence against the other.

A false accusation of domestic violence can have long-reaching implications. Prompt legal action after such a claim can limit the damage.

Ex Parte Hearings

A request for a temporary restraining order (TRO) often accompanies an allegation of domestic violence. These orders are created ex parte, meaning the accused is not present during the hearing and is often not even aware the hearing is taking place.

If a TRO is granted, the accused may not be able to return to their residence or may have their custody or visitation with children limited. These allegations may also affect the accused's job, which is why prompt action is necessary to limit the damage caused by false allegations.

Disproving a domestic violence allegation isn't easy. The person fighting a TRO has a higher bar to disprove the claims than the person requesting the TRO does.


To dispute a domestic violence allegation or a TRO, you need to gather as much evidence as possible to support your claims. Anything from receipts and bills to social media posts may be admissible. Be aware that there may be some forms of evidence the law does not allow. An experienced legal team can help you determine what evidence you can use.

Tell the Truth

Be honest in telling your side of the story. Exaggeration or deliberate omission can backfire. Veering from the truth, even on small matters, gives the other party ways to disprove your statements.

For example, your former partner says the two of you went out to dinner on a Saturday night and got into an argument. You disagree about the nature of that argument, but you don't say that. Instead, you claim that the two of you didn't go out to dinner. When your former partner provides a receipt from the meal with your signature, you lose credibility.

If you don't remember a detail or event, or you know you lost your temper, admit it.

Civil Lawsuits

As the recent Johnny Depp-Amber Heard case demonstrated, one avenue for those falsely accused of domestic violence is a defamation lawsuit.

A lawsuit has pros and cons. One downside is that lawsuits are time- and money-intensive. For people who have had measurable damages, such as lost income, a defamation lawsuit can restore their name and, in some cases, result in compensation for their financial losses.

Experienced Legal Team

Domestic violence is a serious crime. If you've been falsely accused of abuse, you need to act quickly. Family law attorney Joseph D. Lento is experienced with both domestic violence and TROs. To learn how the Lento Law Firm can help you, contact us online or call 888-535-3686.

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Joseph D. Lento

"I pride myself on having heart and driving hard to get results!" Attorney Joseph D. Lento is a veteran of one of the nation's busiest family courts with nearly 20 years' experience passionately helping families. By day, he worked in the trenches of family court, and at night, he studied the law. He helped countless families while working at family court, and he went on to become an attorney, dedicating his law practice to continuing the work he started years earlier. Mr. Lento's experience both behind the scenes and on the front lines allows him to understand a client's family law matter from all angles, and allows him to find and employ the most effective strategies to get favorable outcomes for any client. Joseph D. Lento is licensed in New Jersey and New York, and is admitted pro hac vice as needed nationwide. In the courtroom and in life, attorney Joseph D. Lento stands up when the bell rings! He does not settle for the easiest outcome, and instead prioritizes his clients' needs and protects their interests.


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