Deciding what custody agreement works best for your child may be your most important decision during your separation. You may be wondering if 50/50 custody is the best choice for your child. The child custody lawyers at the Lento Law Firm can help you understand your options and weigh their pros and cons. Give us a call today at 888-535-3686 or contact us online.

Pros of 50/50 Custody Agreements in New Jersey

There is no doubt that 50/50 custody agreements can be beneficial. This type of arrangement allows parents to have equal and shared financial responsibility and time with their children. Going through a separation is difficult enough; the extra financial burden and taking on 100% of home tasks can be overwhelming, but 50/50 custody can provide a reprieve. 50/50 custody is a lot of work, but it encourages parents to form a strong co-parenting relationship.

50/50 custody also allows children to have a consistent and close relationship with both parents. Feeling supported and loved by both parents is vital to a child's emotional well-being.

Cons to 50/50 Custody Agreements in New Jersey

Children are resilient, but stability is crucial to their happiness and success. Even if a 50/50 custody agreement works the fairest for parents, it might not be the best for the child involved. Switching between homes can be really challenging for children, especially young children who don't fully understand the family dynamics.

When you separate, the last thing you want to do is be neighbors with your ex. Even if you want to live next door to make things easier for your child, job opportunities, finances, and other obligations don't always make that possible. 50/50 custody agreements can leave both parents trekking long distances to follow the 50/50 schedule, even if it doesn't make any logistical sense.

When is an Alternative to 50/50 Custody a Better Option?

Deciding the best custody option for you and your child isn't an easy task. While 50/50 custody may seem obvious and fair, it doesn't always reflect reality. Rarely in pre-divorce or pre-parental separation life does a child spend equal time with both parents. Accordingly, 50/50 might not be the option that makes sense, regardless of fairness or how much each parent loves their child. Common situations where 50/50 just doesn't make sense can include:

• Living far apart
• Incompatible work schedules
• Toxic dynamics that make certain or frequent handoffs too stressful for the child
• Safety concerns

Find a Custody Agreement That Works with the Help of the Lento Law Firm

Each child is different; no one knows your child better than you and your co-parent. At the Lento Law Firm, we will talk you through your child custody options in New Jersey and help you navigate the best option for you and your child. Get started with our Family Law Team today; call us at 888-535-3686 or contact us online.