Divorce can be an emotional time, and it's only natural to want to express those emotions on social media. You'll likely find the support you need, and your friends and relatives may be interested in occasional updates. However, your online activity can come back and bite you later, so it's important to think before you post.

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The Do's of Social Media During Divorce

You don't have to refrain from social media altogether. Here are some tips that can help you still enjoy your favorite platforms.

Do: Adjust Your Privacy Settings

Your first step should be to set your privacy settings as tight as possible. Keep in mind that your spouse's attorney may still be able to access your posts through mutual friends or discovery, though.

Do: Think Before You Post

Even the most innocuous post can be used against you in court. If you ask for financial support, for instance, photos of your island vacation or a vehicle you purchased could be used as evidence you're doing just fine.

Do: Monitor Tags

You might be cautious about your posts, but what others post can be used against you as well. Adjust your privacy settings so you're notified when you're tagged, and ask friends and family to avoid posting information that could be used against you in court.

Do: Seek Legal Guidance

The Lento Law Firm Family Law Team has experience with divorce cases and can advise you on your social media activity. Before you click that “publish” button, give us a call and ask if the content could hurt you in court.

The Don'ts of Social Media During Divorce

In addition to adjusting your privacy settings and thinking before you post, there are a few things you should avoid doing.

Don't: Post About New Relationships

Divorces can take a while, and during that time, you may consider dating. You may even enter into a new relationship. Posting publicly about that relationship can work against you if you're seeking spousal or child support.

Don't: Assume Private Messages Are Safe

It can be tempting to vent to trusted friends, but even if those friends keep your secret, private messages can be subpoenaed. This includes social media messages in addition to texts and emails.

Don't: Delete Old Posts

As you're reading this, you may be tempted to dive into your social media profiles and start deleting. Doing so can be seen as spoliation of evidence when done after divorce proceedings have begun. Instead, adjust your privacy settings and be careful moving forward.

Why Legal Guidance Matters

Divorce can be tough, but with the right legal team on your side, you'll have answers to all your questions. The Lento Law Firm Family Law Team has years of experience with divorce cases and can help you navigate the tricky landscape of social media.

If you're dealing with family law issues, get in touch with the Lento Law Firm at 888-535-3686. You can also get in touch by filling out our confidential contact form.