Blog

What to Expect At My Restraining Order Hearing

Posted by Joseph D. Lento | May 12, 2025 | 0 Comments

If you're a victim of domestic violence in New Jersey seeking protection through the court system, understanding what to expect at a restraining order hearing can help ease anxiety during an already stressful time. The process may seem intimidating, but with proper preparation and legal support, you can effectively present your case and secure the protection you need.

The Lento Law Firm Family Law Team understands how overwhelming these hearings can be and will work diligently to help you navigate the process. Contact the Lento Law Firm today at 888-535-3686 or schedule a consultation online.

Restraining Order Process

When you first file for protection in New Jersey, the court may issue a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO). To obtain a TRO, the judge must believe you're in immediate danger. Once the TRO is issued, it will remain in effect until the Final Restraining Order (FRO), which is usually scheduled within ten days.

Unlike TROs, which are often issued quickly and sometimes without the defendant present, FROs in New Jersey are permanent and require a formal hearing where both parties can present their case.

Before your hearing date, it is important to gather all the evidence that supports your case, including:

  • Photographs of injuries
  • Text messages, emails, or social media communications
  • Police reports
  • Medical records
  • Witness statements

The court will evaluate this evidence to determine if an act of domestic violence occurred and if ongoing protection is necessary.

When you arrive at the courthouse, you'll be directed to the Family Part of the Superior Court, where a judge (not a jury) will oversee the case. During the hearing, you'll have the opportunity to testify about:

  • The specific incidents of domestic violence
  • Any history of abuse
  • Your ongoing fear of the defendant

After your testimony, the defendant or their attorney will have the opportunity to ask you questions during cross-examination. This can be one of the most challenging parts of the hearing, as they may attempt to undermine your credibility or version of events. Working with the Lento Law Firm will ensure you do not have to suffer through any unnecessary questions during the hearing.

The defendant will also have the chance to present their side, including their own testimony and witnesses. They may present defenses such as challenging your evidence, claiming they never intended harm or presenting alibis.

After hearing from both sides, the judge will decide whether to grant an FRO based on the preponderance of evidence standard. This means, they will decide whether it is more likely than not that your claims are true based on the evidence your team has presented to prove their case.

How the Lento Law Firm Family Law Team Can Help

Navigating a restraining order hearing can be overwhelming, especially when you're already dealing with the trauma of domestic violence. The Lento Law Firm Family Law Team understands the sensitive nature of these cases and provides comprehensive support throughout the process. Don't face this challenging process alone. Contact the Lento Law Firm today at 888-535-3686 or schedule a consultation online.

About the Author

Joseph D. Lento

"I pride myself on having heart and driving hard to get results!" Attorney Joseph D. Lento is a veteran of one of the nation's busiest family courts with nearly 20 years' experience passionately helping families. By day, he worked in the trenches of family court, and at night, he studied the law. He helped countless families while working at family court, and he went on to become an attorney, dedicating his law practice to continuing the work he started years earlier. Mr. Lento's experience both behind the scenes and on the front lines allows him to understand a client's family law matter from all angles, and allows him to find and employ the most effective strategies to get favorable outcomes for any client. Joseph D. Lento is licensed in New Jersey and New York, and is admitted pro hac vice as needed nationwide. In the courtroom and in life, attorney Joseph D. Lento stands up when the bell rings! He does not settle for the easiest outcome, and instead prioritizes his clients' needs and protects their interests.

Comments

There are no comments for this post. Be the first and Add your Comment below.

Leave a Comment

Comments have been disabled.

Contact a Family Law Attorney Today!

Attorney Joseph D. Lento has more than a decade of experience practicing Family Law in New Jersey. If you are having any uncertainties about what the future may hold for you and your family, contact our offices today. Family Law Attorney Joseph Lento will go above and beyond the needs for any client and fight for what is fair.

This website was created only for general information purposes. It is not intended to be construed as legal advice for any situation. Only a direct consultation with a licensed Pennsylvania, New Jersey, and New York attorney can provide you with formal legal counsel based on the unique details surrounding your situation. The pages on this website may contain links and contact information for third party organizations - the Lento Law Firm does not necessarily endorse these organizations nor the materials contained on their website. In Pennsylvania, Attorney Joseph D. Lento represents clients throughout Pennsylvania's 67 counties, including, but not limited to Philadelphia, Allegheny, Berks, Bucks, Carbon, Chester, Dauphin, Delaware, Lancaster, Lehigh, Monroe, Montgomery, Northampton, Schuylkill, and York County. In New Jersey, attorney Joseph D. Lento represents clients throughout New Jersey's 21 counties: Atlantic, Bergen, Burlington, Camden, Cape May, Cumberland, Essex, Gloucester, Hudson, Hunterdon, Mercer, Middlesex, Monmouth, Morris, Ocean, Passaic, Salem, Somerset, Sussex, Union, and Warren County, In New York, Attorney Joseph D. Lento represents clients throughout New York's 62 counties. Outside of Pennsylvania, New Jersey, and New York, unless attorney Joseph D. Lento is admitted pro hac vice if needed, his assistance may not constitute legal advice or the practice of law. The decision to hire an attorney in Philadelphia, the Pennsylvania counties, New Jersey, New York, or nationwide should not be made solely on the strength of an advertisement. We invite you to contact the Lento Law Firm directly to inquire about our specific qualifications and experience. Communicating with the Lento Law Firm by email, phone, or fax does not create an attorney-client relationship. The Lento Law Firm will serve as your official legal counsel upon a formal agreement from both parties. Any information sent to the Lento Law Firm before an attorney-client relationship is made is done on a non-confidential basis.

Menu