Children Testifying in Child Custody Cases

Posted by Joseph D. Lento | Feb 28, 2020 | 0 Comments

A huge dilemma that both family law attorneys and parents face in custody cases is whether a child should testify in custody proceedings. Some parents long to protect their child from the court process regardless of the circumstances, while others want their child's voice to be heard - particularly if the child is compelled to tell their story. 

What the Law Says

In New Jersey, judges are granted a great deal of discretion when deciding whether a child's testimony is allowed. Testimony from children isn't conducted at a podium in a courtroom like the movies suggest. It is given through an on-camera interview. 

Statutory laws (N.J.S.A. 5:8-6) specifically address children's testimony. It states the following:

“As part of the custody hearing, the court may on its own motion or at the request of a litigant conduct an in-camera interview with the child(ren). In the absence of good cause, the decision to conduct an interview shall be made before trial. If the court elects not to conduct an interview, it shall place its reasons on the record. If the court elects to conduct an interview, it shall afford counsel the opportunity to submit questions for the court's use during the interview and shall place on the record its reasons for not asking any question thus submitted.”

Simply put, the law says that a child could possibly be called to testify. But whether or not this happens will be determined based on the “best interests” of the child. A judge will take into account the child's maturity, intelligence, and ability to reason before putting him or her in a situation to testify.

Applying the Law

So, when is a child of reasonable intelligence and maturity to actually testify? New Jersey law doesn't have a specific criteria in regard to age. There is no “magic number” that judges can use to determine if a child's testimony is credible. Of course, the older the child is, the greater the possibility that a judge will allow the child to express a preference, but maturity and intelligence don't always come with age.

In my experience as a family law attorney, I've observed that judges prefer to keep children out of court proceedings. It is only when children beg to testify that a judge may be open to allowing it. For children like this, it may be even more traumatic to be barred from testifying, as they may feel disregarded and voiceless. Not to mention, that there are situations where it is completely necessary to call a child witness. If two parties have two separate accounts of events, sometimes the child is the only witness who can set the record straight. 

New Jersey Family Law Attorney

Overall, the decision to call a child to testify is a major one that should not be taken lightly. Child testimony has been known to make or break child custody cases. If you're on the fence about what your child should do, contact the Lento Law Firm today at 888-535-3686 for legal counsel.

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Joseph D. Lento

"I pride myself on having heart and driving hard to get results!" Attorney Joseph D. Lento is a veteran of one of the nation's busiest family courts with nearly 20 years' experience passionately helping families. By day, he worked in the trenches of family court, and at night, he studied the law. He helped countless families while working at family court, and he went on to become an attorney, dedicating his law practice to continuing the work he started years earlier. Mr. Lento's experience both behind the scenes and on the front lines allows him to understand a client's family law matter from all angles, and allows him to find and employ the most effective strategies to get favorable outcomes for any client. Joseph D. Lento is licensed in New Jersey and New York, and is admitted pro hac vice as needed nationwide. In the courtroom and in life, attorney Joseph D. Lento stands up when the bell rings! He does not settle for the easiest outcome, and instead prioritizes his clients' needs and protects their interests.


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